
If you ask Abbey what's it like to be the only girl, you would get an earful about how 'awful' her brothers are; how they 'torture' her and tease her everyday, all the time, a never ending misery. And, she's partially right. Her brothers DO tease her. A lot. And I do feel bad for her and try (unsuccessfully) to get them to stop. After Halloween last year, on clearance, I picked up a couple of shirts for the boys which say: Who needs Halloween? My sister is scary enough! I pulled them out this year, with the Halloween stuff for the boys to wear. I showed them to the boys thinking they would appreciate the joke. Cael (one of the biggest culprits of all) looked at the shirt, then looked at me and very sincerely said, "But that's not true" and refused to wear the shirt. I was touched by the genuine and sweet way he said it that despite all the teasing, he really does love his sister; despite his 'tormenting', he cares about her. I guess that's how families go. We tease or treat each other with less than our best selves, but deep down there is a bond of love more powerful than all of that. I hope Abbey realizes this. I also hope, for her sake, that the teasing stops or at least diminishes enough that she can survive being the only girl. But I hope she knows despite the nonstop teasing and 'torturing' (as she says) that her brothers really do love her and care for her and that for now, she's at least not scarier that Halloween :)
